Sunday, March 4, 2012
Friday, March 2, 2012
Wow what pettiness!
Yes she's 13. Yes her father and I allowed her to get 3 piercings. Yes I know some don't approve of that. But she's my daughter not yours. Not all 13 year olds could handle them. She can, she also earned them. She's been begging for 2 years, and yes I know 11 would have been really bad. We told her to wait till 13 for her nose and 14 for the other 2. But well we are 4 months shy of 14. We had the money, she earned the right to have them and is taking excellent care of them. She also didn't pick out huge things that are gaudy or anything. The lip one is a little big but it's the smallest they had. In 4 months she can change it to a little one or a ring or something she likes. But we told her already nothing guady or in your face if you know what I mean.
Yesterday, she went to school for the first time with them. The teachers and staff said nothing at all to her. She's still the same kid, just with a few more holes after all. But some of the kids were cruel. Jealous much? Yep, one kid said she was now ugly. Well, maybe you don't like piercings but she does. Few told her she was lucky and that was awesome! But one kid told her she had a 3 piercing limit and if she got anymore even if it's her ear she was going to pull it out! Aggressive much? Sounds like a kid wanting to go to juvie if you ask me. I don't think this particular kid would do it but it still pissed me off that was said. Katie has been wanting these piercings like I said for over 2 years now. This girl and her sister have been pretty cruel to katie and have called her a copy cat (only one sister has her nose pierced) the other wants her lip done. Actually, katie told this sister she wanted it done a long time ago and I remember her saying no she didn't want it but of course with growing up a bit now she does. So all the sudden katie is a copycat. Uh how? Katie got it done first. And who cares? 2 or 3 people can have the same tastes as each other. Doesn't make it a copy cat. Katie has been begging for a guitar since she was about 5 years old. Seriously. BEGGING! this girl had no interest until she found out katie did. Now for her defense, she's doing rather good with it from what I hear. I'm proud of her. Music and instrument playing is good for all kids. Keeps them out of trouble, gives them something positive to strive for. but she got her guitar first. And rubbed it into Katie's face. Well we didn't want to trade, and didn't want a used one for her. She got a bottom line Fender, but it's a fender!! Katie is so excited with her Fender. That's one of the top guitars other than a Dean. But Katie got the fender and she abosolutely loves it! She's learning on her own till we can afford lessons. they aren't cheap.
Well that's my rant, Just blowing off steam. These two really should get it together. they both have that rocker look (katie has had it for years and this other girl has kind of migrated into it for her love of music) they both like the same bands (avenged sevenfold, etc) and they are both learning guitar. they should put a band together! Instead of fighting with each other and being jealous of each other!
Kids, i swear sometimes I just don't understand them lol
Yesterday, she went to school for the first time with them. The teachers and staff said nothing at all to her. She's still the same kid, just with a few more holes after all. But some of the kids were cruel. Jealous much? Yep, one kid said she was now ugly. Well, maybe you don't like piercings but she does. Few told her she was lucky and that was awesome! But one kid told her she had a 3 piercing limit and if she got anymore even if it's her ear she was going to pull it out! Aggressive much? Sounds like a kid wanting to go to juvie if you ask me. I don't think this particular kid would do it but it still pissed me off that was said. Katie has been wanting these piercings like I said for over 2 years now. This girl and her sister have been pretty cruel to katie and have called her a copy cat (only one sister has her nose pierced) the other wants her lip done. Actually, katie told this sister she wanted it done a long time ago and I remember her saying no she didn't want it but of course with growing up a bit now she does. So all the sudden katie is a copycat. Uh how? Katie got it done first. And who cares? 2 or 3 people can have the same tastes as each other. Doesn't make it a copy cat. Katie has been begging for a guitar since she was about 5 years old. Seriously. BEGGING! this girl had no interest until she found out katie did. Now for her defense, she's doing rather good with it from what I hear. I'm proud of her. Music and instrument playing is good for all kids. Keeps them out of trouble, gives them something positive to strive for. but she got her guitar first. And rubbed it into Katie's face. Well we didn't want to trade, and didn't want a used one for her. She got a bottom line Fender, but it's a fender!! Katie is so excited with her Fender. That's one of the top guitars other than a Dean. But Katie got the fender and she abosolutely loves it! She's learning on her own till we can afford lessons. they aren't cheap.
Well that's my rant, Just blowing off steam. These two really should get it together. they both have that rocker look (katie has had it for years and this other girl has kind of migrated into it for her love of music) they both like the same bands (avenged sevenfold, etc) and they are both learning guitar. they should put a band together! Instead of fighting with each other and being jealous of each other!
Kids, i swear sometimes I just don't understand them lol
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
wow!
Gone for a long time! My computer crashed, then the other did! so I've been gone before even thanksgiving! I've been bored, lonely and the kids are getting big! So here are a few pictures to keep you tied over till I can really get back into writing. It's sad cause I was just starting to again!
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Friday, November 18, 2011
A rant about a sweet baby
For once I agree with Nancy Grace, Usually she gets on my nerves. But with baby Tyler she's got it right on the money! How many times have I been frustrated, under stress and duress. Have I ever beat my kids? HELL NO!!! I believe in spanking nothing is wrong with that. beating i don't agree with and punching a baby all over till he dies and hiding his body in a cemetery and going back to sleep? Hell no! Why not just let him cry for a bit? I remember being frustrated and not even being able to take a shower when Katie was a baby! Stressed out about to loose it but did i hurt her? No I called my sister Kathleen who came to my house and watched her for a little bit in my home so I could take a shower and destress! I called for help! I still get stressed and frustrated come on i have 5 kids not just one. I lean on Josue and he me! I needed to destress the other night. I gave the baby to him, told katie to watch the others and took a bath!!! YOU DON'T BEAT THEM TO DEATH AND HIDE THEIR BODIES AND GO BACK TO SLEEP THEN CALL THE POLICE AND SAY HE'S MISSING! She had an entire support system! more of a support system than I ever saw! Being a single mom is hard but she lived with her mom! She went out the night before someone watched Tyler for her! She was able to get out and get away I never did and never did I think of hurting her! Leave him in his crib and turn the radio up a bit (not a lot) but enough to be able to relax for a few minutes and get yourself together. Don't kill your children! Crisis nursery we have one here in st louis! Call them!!! Get someone to help you! Don't have sex if you can't handle a baby! She loved him? How can you beat someone you love to death? She's a nut job and needs to be put away for life! Never to have kids again! harsh? not in my opinion and nothing anyone is going to say is going to change that opinion!
Others are saying she snapped and didn't realize what she did till it was over. Yea? She did? A baby? Usually a babies cries upset mom, did his cries not shock her out of it? Uh huh? She disposed of him like a piece of trash! Did she think she wasn't going to get caught? Why does this bug me so much? I know I don't know them and it should not but it's close to home (15 minutes away), I have a baby around his age, and the fact that she had such a huge support system in place. A babysitter, a mom who could help her, friends, other family. Even the neighbors said they would have helped her if she had needed it! I didn't really have anyone to turn to! I still don't! I haven't been out with my husband for years! I haven't been out of the house without at least one of my kids in years! I don't ever get away! I'm with them 365 days a year and yes it gets aggravating, but it's also rewarding! I am better off than her I have a husband to lean on. She had others to lean on. I remember being stressed out and just wanting to go to a darn movie when Katie was a baby and not being able to! I didn't have anyone to watch her for a couple hours! So I did what I had to, I stayed home and cared for her and you know what? I'm a better mom for it! I didn't miss ANYTHING of her life! I worked, sometimes over night shifts! I still picked her up from the baby sitter around 6:30 a.m. and having no sleep went home and stayed up with her till she would lay down for a nap and then slept when and as I could! Thankfully, I didn't have to work many of those over night shifts but I did! And i was working not partying! I hope she rots!
Others are saying she snapped and didn't realize what she did till it was over. Yea? She did? A baby? Usually a babies cries upset mom, did his cries not shock her out of it? Uh huh? She disposed of him like a piece of trash! Did she think she wasn't going to get caught? Why does this bug me so much? I know I don't know them and it should not but it's close to home (15 minutes away), I have a baby around his age, and the fact that she had such a huge support system in place. A babysitter, a mom who could help her, friends, other family. Even the neighbors said they would have helped her if she had needed it! I didn't really have anyone to turn to! I still don't! I haven't been out with my husband for years! I haven't been out of the house without at least one of my kids in years! I don't ever get away! I'm with them 365 days a year and yes it gets aggravating, but it's also rewarding! I am better off than her I have a husband to lean on. She had others to lean on. I remember being stressed out and just wanting to go to a darn movie when Katie was a baby and not being able to! I didn't have anyone to watch her for a couple hours! So I did what I had to, I stayed home and cared for her and you know what? I'm a better mom for it! I didn't miss ANYTHING of her life! I worked, sometimes over night shifts! I still picked her up from the baby sitter around 6:30 a.m. and having no sleep went home and stayed up with her till she would lay down for a nap and then slept when and as I could! Thankfully, I didn't have to work many of those over night shifts but I did! And i was working not partying! I hope she rots!
Thursday, November 17, 2011
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